What really intrigues me is the mother's reaction to Raha's refusal to wed the man they picked out. (Rahid?) She decides to do severe bodily harm to her daughter, possibly in an attempt to convince her to wed Rahid. She goes into her room and then beats Raha with a stick until she has broken bones, a bloody nose and she is crumpled on the floor. Then the mother picks Raha up by her hair, drops her and repeats to give her even more pain. I think that the mother was hurt more than she was angry because of the way Raha just flat out refused the opportunity that she gave her. It is partially Raha's fault because she is supposed to obey her parents and willingly give herself up to the suitor that they allow for her.
However it is mostly the mother's fault because of the overreaction to Raha's refusal. Most of the mother's anger probably comes from all of the time and energy that she put into giving Raha what she wants and making her beautiful. I think that the mother had a good right to be angry, but she had no reason to severely injure her daughter.
Andrew-
ReplyDeleteI agree that, in her culture, Raha did do the wrong thing. (I'm not saying that girls shouldn't be allowed to choose their spouse.) However, I do not think that the mother had a good reason to be angry. The only reason the mother spent so much time and effort into making Raha beautiful and giving her what she wants is so 1) Men will want to marry her. and 2) So Raha feels she needs to repay her mother somehow. She never asked Raha for her input on Fahid, she expected Raha to obey and feel guilty if she doesn't, which is rather manipulative and BAD. The least the mother could've done was tell Raha a little bit in advance why she was so focused on making her perfect and happy.
Good connection to Catherine Called Birdy. The characters themselves (Raha and Catherine) are pretty different, since Catherine is much more independent and spunky, while Raha is imaginative and a bit out-of-touch-with-reality. But their overall objective is similar. (not to get married).
-Peyton